A Message from the Chaplain
Our Hope for You
Hope as You Begin to Heal
What to Expect
Helping Your Children
Common Reactions of Adults
Factors Affecting Your Responses
Basic Needs of the Bereaved
How a Counselor Can Help
Tasks of Grief
Support Groups
Resources
Library Resources
First Steps After Death
Funeral Checklist

About Us
E-mail:
Joe.Davis@sdcounty.ca.gov

 
What to Expect

ALTHOUGH THE PROCESS IS INDIVIDUAL, there are some common grief reactions that may be helpful for you to know. These are the normal and expected reactions to your loss. Sometimes it is difficult for others, who are concerned about you, to see these behaviors in you. Show them this booklet to reassure them that what you are experiencing is normal.



  • You may sleep a great deal, or be unable to sleep.
  • Your appetite may increase or decrease.
  • It may be difficult to concentrate, or remember things, or your judgment may be impaired.
  • You may lack motivation to get even the most mundane daily tasks completed.
  • You may be very irritable or "on edge".
  • You may have the need to tell the story of the death over and over again.
  • You may experience unpredictable crying.
  • You may be fearful even in situations you are familiar with and have felt safe in.

     

    Dunamai ministries
    P.O. Box 711173
    Santee, CA 92072-1173
    619.449.4532
    Joe.Davis@sdcounty.ca.gov